Wednesday, May 11, 2016

Blessed When Afar

Panic began to set in as I poked through my money belt for a second time: passport, debit card, drivers license, a few hundred baht, keys to our locks.

We stood at the ATM on an unknown street in Bangkok on our very first day in Thailand and felt like throwing up. I had lost our credit card!

That evening when we returned to our hotel, I immediately began rummaging through everything I had—on the nightstand a handful of loose change, my journal, and granola bar wrappers. I checked my pants pockets from last night and pulled them inside-out. We looked in the bathroom and under the bed and all over the floor.

Then I retraced my steps at the airport last night. It was late. The plane landed at 1:40 am and we were both tired when we threw packs over our shoulders and walked for what felt like miles through the terminal of a foreign airport and went through immigration.

I knew I needed Thai baht if we were to pay for a taxi ride to our hotel. I fumbled the credit card from my money belt, which was hid beneath the waist of my pants. I had to pull the belt up to my stomach and unzip the pouch and finger through the pockets to find the right card.

At the first kiosk they told me I had to go to the “machine” that was further ahead. I kept the card in-hand and found the machine and withdrew 2,000 baht.

I know I had the credit card at that moment and that is the very last time that I can say with certitude that it was with me. I don't remember if I tried returning it to the money belt, or put it in my pocket, or just held it in my hand until I sat down and had a moment to put myself back together. I remember waiting on a bench at the front of the airport for Jenelle while she was in the bathroom. Maybe I dropped it on the floor, or perhaps it slipped from my hands when I intended to replace it to the belt.

Once Jenelle got back from the bathroom to tend the bags, I took my turn. You take care of business and you unbuckle your pants and maybe it was there that the card dropped. But anytime I leave a place, it is always my habit to look behind me as I walk away. I'm sure it was no different then.

On our way to call a taxi, our burden was heavy. We both carried a backpack on our shoulders and I carried my camera also, strapped in a case that slung cross-ways over my body. We ordered a taxi from a booth near the exit of the airport and they handed us a paper receipt. Just something else to hold in our hands. It is no wonder that I would have lost a credit card as there were so many different distractions calling our attention.

Of course, it could have been lost in the taxi. It was dark when we sat down in the back seat, relieved to finally be on our way to the hotel. The driver spoke almost no English, but the ladies at the booth had already given him the address of our lodging.

He looked like an honest man and if we had dropped it on the floor of his cab, I don't think he would have used it. But you never know. Jenelle and I enjoyed the twenty minute ride, cruising along a nearly vacant freeway, watching signs pass by in Thai script, completely oblivious that we had just lost our credit card.

After learning our sudden misfortune, a dismal gloom hung over us. As far as we knew, a stranger from Singapore had been racking up the purchases as quickly as possible during the last twenty hours. Not only did we not know the password for our Citicard account, but we only had one phone, and without a tourist SIM card. Without that, we couldn't even make a phone call. We carried an extra credit card and one debit card. Two weeks left in Thailand was a long time and the thrill of our trip was squashed on day one!

Luckily, Jenelle finally figured out the Citicard password, and we gave a sigh of relief when we learned that there had been no new purchases. Perhaps the thief was a little slow at shopping. We still had to cancel the card. We couldn't do it online, and then we worried of losing our debit card. Then we'd really have nothing. We'd be begging in the streets!

Each day as we walked the streets and came by a 7-eleven, we would walk inside and ask for a SIM card. And each time they would look around and come up with nothing.

But also each day, we would check the account, and still, no one had made a purchase. As time went on, we began to breathe easier and feel more confident that our card had fallen into the hands of an honest person.

Now as I write two months later, I am pleased to say that no one took advantage of our credit card. It is a huge relief and I am grateful that there are honest people in the world.

Not all are so lucky. A friend of mine has a son who is living in Cameroon. He lost his debit card and someone drained the account, making purchases in Vietnam and Houstan, Texas.

Just last week I went to the store to buy food for my wife's birthday dinner. I picked out a large round seedless watermelon that would have been a treat during the off-season of April. Instead of bringing it into the house, I left it in the back of my truck while we left in another vehicle to a church party.

I returned home that evening after the sun had set, and spent my time in the kitchen working on dinner. As I turned off the stove and set the table, I pulled out a knife and cutting board, then eagerly ran outside to grab the watermelon. It was gone! Stolen!

I was quite perturbed that in my own apparently safe neighborhood, I had something swiped from the back of my truck. My mind quickly turned to a group of teenage boys that tend to wander after dark and cause trouble.

At least it was only a watermelon. I would much rather have that, than a compromised credit card.

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