Today I talked for one and a half hours with a person I had never met in my life.
It all began yesterday when my wife was photographing the wedding for a young couple. After the wedding they attended a luncheon when she happened to sit at the same table as the groom's grandparents.
The grandmother asked my wife, “Now, remind me of your name.”
“Jenelle Lacy,” she responded.
After a minute of small conversation, an older gentleman sitting at the same table piped up in a loud voice: “So, who is John Lacy?”
This was odd since neither one of us had ever met each other.
He introduced himself as Bernie Johnson. When he learned that I, John Lacy, was her husband, he became excited. “I have some documents I need to give him,” he said.
He wanted to meet me in person. I wasn't there, but through texts from my wife, I quickly became informed of his presence. I was as baffled as anyone.
It turns out we are both descended from Joel Hills Johnson, a prominent figure in the early history of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Joel is my fourth-great grandfather, while he is Bernie's first-great grandfather. I had a suspicion that this had to do with the reason he wanted to see me.
His sister lives just up the street and we had arranged that I would meet Bernie the following morning.
When I showed up, some of the tables and chairs from the reception still adorned the lawn. A small group of family members sat around and visited. At once, Bernie stood up. He was expecting me. I know everyone else in the family and I'm sure they told him it was me.
Bernie is 80 years old. He wore Sunday pants with a white shirt, but no tie. On his gray head he donned a straw hat. The first words from his mouth: “You are much younger than I thought you'd be.”
We walked around the back yard to go inside the house. His legs almost gave out. He struggled to make it up the stairs and I supported his back with my hand so he didn't fall backwards.
Our common ancestor, Joel Hills Johnson.
We found ourselves ensconced in two wooden chairs inside Gaye Matheson's kitchen. Gaye is his sister and eight years his elder.
On the table sat a large brown expanding folder. In front of it, a stack of papers.
For the next hour he handed me papers, one document at a time, explaining each of them. We covered so much area that I have already forgotten many of the details.
He gave me a paper on the resurrection of little children and another on the Biblical mother, Aseneth. As he told the story of Aseneth, tears rolled down his cheek as if he were speaking of his own mother.
The bulk of what we discussed, however, was Joel Hills Johnson, and in particular, when and where he wrote the beloved hymn, “High on the Mountain Top.” It is disputed within the family and even the church whether it was written in Salt Lake City during the spring of 1850, or at Johnson Fort (now Enoch) in 1853.
One of the commonly accepted versions comes from Bernie's father, who claims that Joel wrote the hymn while waiting in line at the tithing office in Salt Lake. Each time he returned with a load of lumber from his sawmill at Mill Creek, he knew he was getting close when he could see the flag waving on Ensign Peak. One day there happened to be a long line at the tithing office, so he unhitched his horses and sat down on the tongue of his wagon and penned the famous verses.
Bernie grew up in Tropic, Utah at the foot of Bryce Canyon where they raised cattle. His grandfather, John Henry Johnson, spent a lot of time on a horse in the back-country, and even led a National Geographic reporter in the early 1900's. On a remote wall in Paria Canyon is the inscription “J H Johnson,” most likely left by Bernie's grandfather. He showed me a picture of the inscription.
When it was time to go, I firmly shook his hand and told him I appreciated the opportunity to meet him.—But I had to ask one last question.
“How did you know of me?”
He wasn't really sure.
We both belong to a Joel Hills Johnson group (with thousands of members) on Facebook. A couple of years ago I made a comment on it. He's not sure if that's where he heard my name, but for some reason, it stood out to him.
On the drive here he had the thought that if he were to meet John Lacy, he should give him some documents.
“So, you were thinking about it on the way down?” I asked him.
“Oh, it was just a passing thought. I do a lot of thinking when I drive.”
—And then at the luncheon, he sat down next to my wife. ♠